The One

Just a bit of thought in last few days, I was thinking about the concept of ‘The One’ . Look at those people around us, they fall for another person in the midst of the euphoriam, they often believe they have found ‘The One’. What if ‘the One’ dies or leaves them? Or worse the boringness of ‘The One’ starts? Is that person still ‘The One’ or have they got ‘The wrong One’?

If it is the former, they can carry on believing that that person was indeed ‘The One’, Anyone who is not ‘The One’ is seen as necessarily a poor substitute.

Else, they decide that this person was not The One they’d been waiting for, and they are yet to meet him or her. this also applies of course if they themselves go off ‘The One’ and end the relationship.

Always, the concept of ‘The One’ which is the root cause of the problems most of the times. It usually comes from a fundamental belief in lack of faith in life to provide abundant opportunities. Of course the particular person we are with is great and may tick all our boxes and we may be happy to spend the rest of our days with them, but that is not to say that someone else could not be equally good for us.

So do I believe in ‘The One’?

Of course the answer has to be ‘Yes and No’.........